thanks for the name change ;)

Liz

mop mop mop, all day long, mop mop mop while I sing this song.... gonna wash that floor, gonna make it shine....gonna take off the spray paint with turpentine....

Barbara, A. M., & Dion, K. L. (2000). Breaking up is hard to do, especially for strongly "preoccupied" lovers. The Journal of Personal & Interpersonal Loss, 5, 315-342.

huh?

I was thinking the journal article might give you some insights on why breaking-up is hard to do.