But the end result is that I can subscribe/ack presence requests now, have my roster update (SQLite plugin), and see my account on jabber.org change status now from my other Jabber client connected to DJabberd, subscribed to the jabber.org presence. Fun fun.
BTW, this will all run on POE once
hachi bridges the Danga::Socket and POE worlds. So DJabberd plugins (which are all async by design) can use POE components. 